Testimonials
TestimonialsLove Literacy Membership
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Tremika 1
“It’s work, but to me it’s the best work. I’ve learned to love myself so much. Like, I think in many ways I was existing and just doing the things that were coming up for me to do. But through getting in the work, examining myself, paying attention to myself, being in the moment with myself every day and realizing that more things need to be coming from inside of me.”
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Tremika 2
“This membership met me every step of the way where I was. So at any point in time, I can see someone jumping in. And I think even after I find my life partner and I’m married, the membership will still be important, because you’re continuing to learn how to be you.
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Peggy LL
“I joined Love Literacy because I deserved to have the relationship that I desired. Cullen and Alethia, they give you the tools. They gave me the tools that I need to have that relationship. If we don’t know what we’re supposed to be looking for or what we want, how can you have that? I like that a teenager could probably do this because we want to start our children out young, having the tools that they need to have a good relationship.”
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Patricia 1
“Having. The Love Literacy app is very user friendly. You have access to everything you need at your fingertips. You log in, you can go ahead and get on videos, you can get chat, you get all that coursework. So you have these conversations, you watch the lessons, but then you have that information there for you to back up anytime you need it.”
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Patricia 2
“A love literacy membership isn’t just for romantic couples. I have talked to Aletia and Cullen about my relationship with my daughter. I’ve talked to them about my leadership position. I started a new career path and was put in leadership and had trouble understanding how to navigate that. Being friends with the people who now you have to manage.”
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Bianca
“Frederick I have been on and off again with my partner for about ten years now. Being that we are both healthcare professionals, we definitely desired love, but we didn’t know really how to get there, right? Like, we have been in school and has taught us everything, how to get to point A to point B, and we work with people, but working with people to build a foundation together was definitely hard.”
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Conscious Dating Program
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Taliah
“A divorce after over 20 years of marriage was a shock to me. I did not see it coming in the way that it did. And so when I got into the relationship with Aliti and Cullen, I was still in this space of, is there something else that I can do? Like, should I try couple therapy again? Should I try individual therapy?”
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Tremika
“I’ve learned through the membership that I am right where I’m supposed to be in my love journey. And all the lessons that I need are right here in all of the relationships that are around me. Whether it be in work with my kids, with my friends, with my parents, and then of course, a romantic relationship, dating people.”
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Medical Doctor,
Artist, Miami, Florida
“I personally have benefited from the outstanding services of WhenLoveWorks Inc. They have coached me through my own personal trauma, which has permitted me to thrive – the directorship roles that I mentioned above were obtained during the time I have worked with them. I enthusiastically and without reservation recommend WhenLoveWorks.
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Education Leader,
Bronx, NY
“I was single for 9 years. I accepted that this was going to be my life. When taking the Dating Series course, Cullen and Elitia gave me what I needed-which was a reality check. I am grateful for how those 4 sessions opened up my mind to look beyond my hurt, guilt and shame, in order to forgive myself. Once that was done, letting go and embracing myself as someone who deserves love,
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Events & Special
Program Manager,
New York, NY
“I am now in my second session with When Love Works and my life has not been the same since the 1st Session. My biggest lesson and takeaway: Love and Fear cannot co-exist. I continue to revisit exercises to get a deeper understanding of myself. I highly recommend investing in yourself to learn more and love more; not only yourself, but the people around you.”
Podcast Creator,
Brooklyn, NY
“Sunz that was awesome! I don’t know about anybody else but I’m still buzzing from the event last Saturday (TLC: The LoveWorks Conference). It was awesome! I’m going to talk you all up the next podcast we tape.”
Find out all about our Conscious Dating program by clicking here
Conscious Couples Program
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Patricia
“A great value is investing into your relational health. When you talk about our physical and mental health, we think about, oh well, when I’m 60, I want to be able to do the things I do at 40. When I’m 70, I want to be able to walk around and be independent. Well, that’s the same for our relationships.’”
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Bianca
“Because I have the love literacy membership. I see my future relationships just being in abundance and so I see my relationships continuing to flourishing because I’m investing in myself, which allows me to have that present day check in of who do I want to be.”
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Career Advisor & Engineer,
Atlanta, GA
“My boyfriend and I were at our wits end having the same silly arguments that would quickly escalate to full blown fights. Over the summer, we participated in a virtual event (Virtual Couples Retreat 2020) hosted by Cullen and Elitia, which was a spectacular day of learning what matters in our relationship and remembering to have fun.Then when the When Love Works (WLW) workshop series for couples opened enrollment, we jumped at the chance.
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Transportation & Financial
Entrepreneurial, Brooklyn, NY
“Thanks for a great time… We will take the principles you taught us and continue to Love without Fear, be open to uncertainties, have spiritual grounding, and continue evolving.”
Director or Sales and
Marketing, New Orleans,
LA.
“Tonight was an awesome experience with couples coming together sharing how to move their families and themselves together as a unit. And I think everyone should experience this seminar. Great job WLWD.”
Attorney, New Orleans, LA
“Great relationship workshop! If you’re looking for some useful tools to navigate your relationships ( family, spouse, career ) I suggest When Love Works with Elitia and Cullen Mattox. I know the session yesterday gave me insight and viable tools. I’ll be preserving my lumens today!”
Education Leader & IT Pro,
New York, NY
“I’m so happy I decided to do this work with Tywon! Everything is just lining up. And I’ve been using the When Love Works tools with my family, too!”
Retired Manager, Staten
Island, NY
“We Just went to the WhenLoveWorks Valentine event (The LoveWorks Conference) on Feb 15th. We, my husband & myself along with about 14 couples and some single folks and we all had so much fun! We had fun along with gaining knowledge about relationships that we did not want to leave. It was 5 hours and they had to practically kick us out. And there were people of all backgrounds, religions, races and ages. I’m 62 and my hubby is 53
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HER Toolbox Women’s Program
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Kim
“I would say everyone is a good fit. If you’re any person that’s on a journey to just evolve into more, I feel that this work that they do is such an uncommon work. We go to school for our ABCs. We go to school for one, two, three. And rarely do we see any information on how to engage on a day to day basis.”
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Eboni
“Hi, I’m Ebony Mason. I am a Harlem knight, and I’m also a client of Winlove Works. I think taking two workshops was really key because the first time I took the workshop in June, that was prior to entering the courtship with my husband. And that really laid the groundwork on my own self worth and laying out the things that I wanted to have in a husband.”
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Pastor and Diasporan Art
Curator,
New York, NY
“Working with WLW was one of the best decisions I ever made last year. I am always looking for ways to be a better me. For me, becoming better requires work; hard work, real work, soul work. Elitia provided me with the practical tools that produced results that further allowed me to embrace a love that transcends and escapes the bounds of my human reality.”
Medical Doctor,
Artist, Miami, Florida
“I personally have benefited from the outstanding services of WhenLoveWorks Inc. They have coached me through my own personal trauma, which has permitted me to thrive – the directorship roles that I mentioned above were obtained during the time I have worked with them. I enthusiastically and without reservation recommend WhenLoveWorks.”
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Owner of Natural Skin
Care line and Wellness
Lead,
Atlanta, GA
“You guys gotta check them out. Their workshops are amazing. I learned SO much. Can’t wait for the Her Series and toolbox! You are such a wealth of knowledge. I’m grateful for the impact you’ve had on my life, and I’m looking forward to digging deeper next year!”
Musicians & Content
Creators,
New York, NY
“Thank You for the tools and inspiration. You don’t know how much your presence in my life had an effect on my love life.As an an author of my own relationship book, meeting you (Elitia) made me understand that I still had much to learn about being and choosing the right person. I had been struggling in a relationship that didn’t serve me, and the more I spent time with you,
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Payroll Professional, New
Orleans, LA
“Yesterday was really eye opening for me… I learned a lot in that hour… That was just the first session!”
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Couples Retreat Program
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Randal D
“My name is Randall Deval, and I’ve been with my wife Rhonda for twelve years, 13 years. You know, my wife is an entrepreneur. I was a teacher, an educator, and assistant principal and all that kind of stuff. And so we were really busy individuals, and so going away to uratan gave us the space and the opportunity to slow down.”
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Randal D 2
“Experience of the retreat is some of the time is spent in counseling, but I think all the time is spent working on the relationship. And that could be taking a tour like we did in Rothan. Being on the beach quite a bit, doing touristy things that we like to do, going out to dinner.”
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Rhonda C-D
“Now getting away as a couple in order to do meaningful relationship work is really important because detaching yourself from the bustling culture and extracting yourself from the grind of the day to day in order to focus on something. And so when you are trying to cultivate a healthy relationship.”
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Peggy J
“Name is Peggy Jacobs, and I decided to go on the couple’s retreat because I thought it’d be interesting. I thought it would be nice to learn more about my relationship and the depth I was at a turning point. I did not like the person that I was with him, and I did did not like some of the things that were happening in the relationship.”
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Patricia
“My name is Patricia Stevenson. I decided to sign up for the retreat for a few reasons. Just the idea of being able to connect with my partner, with a group of other people who also had the same goals and had being led by people like Alita and Cullen, who had experience with leadership and relationship counseling, just made sense that it would be an environment that would actually feed into our relationship.”
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Shannon
“I was one of those people that didn’t think there was major value in counseling or having other people kind of join into our relationship. I thought we were doing a pretty decent job already, but I was wrong in a sense. Wrong in the sense of it was totally worth it. We learned different tools, we learned different techniques, things that I had not even thought about before. One of the things that I took away was the love language.”
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Derrick & Diane
“Hi, we’re Diane and Derek Butts, and we live in Washington, D. C. We have enjoyed an awesome week here in Roatan on the when love works, couples getaway. We can’t wait to come back. That’s an awesome experience. The atmosphere, the energy, the conversations, just the community. It’s been all awesome. Yeah, we’ve met great people, and I would say one of our greatest takeaways is keep working at it.”
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Acupuncturist &
Education Administrator,
Tucson, AZ
“Another glorious day of WhenLoveWorks Couples Getaway 2017! What a beautiful experience!…getting ready to break bread and give thanks for this incredible opportunity to relax and appreciate life! Today was a wonderful day! I am extremely grateful for your meticulous nature. Attention to detail is the best description we can use to describe our first day here. Enjoy life every day. You can do a lot with a little. Do not stay in your prescribed lane.”
Models, Photographers, IT
Security Pro, Washington,
DC & New York, NY
“Awesome experience. The atmosphere, the energy, the conversations. Just the community. It’s been all awesome.Yeah we’ve met great people and I would say one of our greatest takeaways is keep working at it. Be each other’s biggest cheerleader and keep it going. We’ve been married for almost 30 years and we want another 130 more.Absolutely, because you really don’t know what you don’t know until you get into an
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