Unlock the Skills to Build, Repair, and Sustain Healthy Love
Healthy love doesn’t happen automatically. It’s learned, practiced, and reinforced over time.
The Love Literacy Book gives you the language, tools, and clarity to stop guessing in love and start leading it with intention.
We’re Cullen & Elitia Mattox, relationship coaches and educators with decades of experience helping individuals and couples move from confusion to clarity in love.
This book reflects the exact tools we teach our clients to build, repair, and sustain healthy relationships in real life.
Love Without Skills Leads to Strain and good intentions alone simply won’t sustain healthy relationships. Without shared language and practical tools, love drifts into frustration, distance, or burnout.
Our book, Love Literacy was crafted to bridge that gap and help you:

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Bridge the gap between theory and transformation with guided exercises designed to turn insights into action.
“If there are conditions attached to love, then you're not in a love relationship, you are instead in an if/then geometry equation. If you want to learn what love is, and gain the tools to maintain a healthy lifetime relationship in love, then you need this book!”
“I can't believe how many times I have to read and reread Chapters I and 4. Where was this information, like 10 years ago?”
“The Love Literacy book is a game changer. It's filled with perspective and descriptive gems that bring awareness to my dating while preserving the enjoyment during the getting to know each other phase, intentional but interesting!”
“Chapter six is eye-opening because it re-frames courtship as a process. Historically, I'd skip over this stage and try to jump into a lifetime partnership by avoiding conflict. Approaching conflict by allowing one hurt to have the floor" has been a communication game changer. This concept has allowed us to resolve and grow from issues instead of compounding them.”
“Learn how here, then water it and nurture it, and you will have a beautiful garden.”
“I really enjoyed what I read. Love Literacy provides an honest and refreshing take on lifetime partnership; explaining that
"enthusiasm and chemistry alone are not enough." This insightful perspective from Elitia and Cullen gives the reader permission to readjust their views or previous behaviors to learn the tools necessary for a healthy, loving, lifetime partnership.
Love Literacy teaches us how to become Love Leaders”
“As I read, I felt like I was taking a direct shot. This book is straight, no chaser!”
“love reading Love Literacy. This book allows me to continue my healthy relationship journey. I have a pep in my step knowing that my tribe, my partner, and my opportunities are already aligned and waiting for me.”
“I love the thought of being a 'Love Leader in a lifetime partnership. It removes egos and feelings of disparity. It's a beautiful way of sharing roles for times when the relationship gets cloudy or needs a push in the right direction.”
“As a lifelong learner, my jaw dropped when I read about the lack of relationship curricula. How can one of the most important aspects of our life be missing from universities?! I am grateful that I have the chance to learn from this book and really be intentional about the work I want to continue to do in my marriage.”